The F4 Tornado that Hit My Hometown 31 Years Ago Still Haunts Me

Paris Texas Tornado

We were lucky.

Other than some broken limbs and a chimney vent that was pulled shut, my family was okay on April 2, 1982. Our power went out for a few days, and that was about it.

Other families in Paris, Texas weren’t so lucky. Ten people died and 170 were injured.

I  recall vividly standing in the front yard of a friend’s house, watching the tornado approach us. Debris flew around it, looking for all the world like flying birds. Miraculously, just as we moved inside the tornado picked up and skipped our cluster of houses, only to resume its destruction nearby. From the safety of a hallway, we watched the monster rip metal off a horse barn. Again, miraculously, the animals were safe.

My mom, recklessly speeding in a car toward me, almost pulled over once and dove into a ditch. In that same spot the following day, we noticed the tornado had driven a huge section of picket fence into the ground. If she’d have stopped there, it would have killed her. Another miracle.

My piano teacher went to put the key in the front lock of his house only to have the house lift up and disappear. His family survived, but his child’s legs were broken. As a parent now, I can imagine his terror.

My heart goes out to Oklahomans affected by yesterday’s tragedy. I’ve already sent money to the Red Cross–the same organization that served my community so well all those years ago.

Will you join me in supporting the Red Cross in Oklahoma?

Because three decades after the tragedy in my hometown, I still feel pain when watching tornadoes on television. Sometimes I still have nightmares.

Nature, you see, is both beautiful and brutal.

And there’s a lot of work to be done in Oklahoma to put these good people on the path toward physical and emotional well-being again. They need us.

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Image source (includes in-depth description of the Paris storm)

UPDATED:

A group of Texas bloggers using the #TXBloggers hash is writing posts to raise funds. You can read more on my friend Colleen’s blog.

TX Bloggers for Oklahoma Tornado Survivors

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{Old School} Speaking of Eldercare on Sulia

Some of y’all recognize that gal in the red dress as my mom.

And, if you’re a regular reader, you know that I am honored to walk with her during these last years of her life. I’m her only child and thus her closest living relative. Therefore, I oversee and coordinate all aspects of her life. (She is in a nursing home currently, her body ravaged by rheumatoid arthritis. Her mind is a steel trap, however.)

In her honor, I will be talking about eldercare daily this week on Sulia.com.

When I asked some of my fellow Sulia writers what they would like to know about eldercare, one remarked: “We have had to learn to give [my mother] guidance when her thinking is off while observing her independence.”

I think this sentence is wonderful on so many levels. Continue reading

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{From Blogpost to Bookshelf} Come Talk with Me About How You can Go from “Blog to Book”

From Blog to Book talk

At some point weeks ago here at RedWhiteandGrew.com I mentioned that I would dedicate time this summer to talking about writing.

Ta-da! Now I have two events lined up on that front. One is a panel, the other is a workshop. (Look for me to post about an online workshop soon, too, here at RW&G.)

Authors and Social Media Panel
Wednesday, May 22, 2013
7:30 AM to 9:00 AM
The Egg & I Thousand Oaks (Stone Oak)

MORE information with map and RSVP via Facebook

Have you written a book and wondered how to use social media to get the word out, market your work and increase sales?

Do you have a blog topic that keeps folks coming back for more post after post? What if you wanted to turn that blog into a book? Could you do it?

This month we have two authors who have successfully used social media to take their work to the next level using social media.

Lisa Thibault Pietsch is a local author who used smart tactics to get the word out and promote her book series: “Task Force 25″. Lisa has also taken her knowledge and translated it into workshops and teaching session. We’re thrilled to have her jon us to share some of her keys to success as well as some of her lessons learned.

Pamela Price is an award-winning blogger who has turned her passion for homeschooling and victory gardens into a lifestyle blog. Her blog caught the attention of a publisher which landed her a book deal. Pamela will share her story and tips for success in her session titled “From Blog Post to Bookshelf: One Writer’s Journey.”

How to Write Your First Book
Saturday, June 15, 2013
Parman Library (Stone Oak)
10 AM – 11:30 AM
No RSVP required

What’s the difference between a published author and someone with a great book idea? The published author integrates writing into her “regular” life, consistently uses basic organizational tips, effectively utilizes resources (including social media and the library!), and grasps the realities of the industry.

Topics include:

• Strategies for building the “habit” of writing into your busy life (technology, scheduling)
• Using social media both to write and to promote your work
• Organizational tips
• Resources and support
• How to keep up the momentum
• Options for publishing
• When to seek an agent

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Happy Mother’s Day

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“Being a Momma is in your heart. Kiddos may be birth children, stepchildren, four-footed children, feathered children, nephews, nieces and so many others. So, many blessings to all the Mommas!” – my childhood friend, Tisha.

(And to those of you who have lost a mother, loving thoughts to you, as well.)

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{Adventure Trails & Tales} Cherry Trees Blossomed for Us in London

Cherry Blossoms in London April 2013

Aren’t these gorgeous against the blue?

They were near our hotel, and I visited them every day that we were in England.

I don’t think I’ve ever seen cherry trees with blossoms in person, though I’ve been to Washington, D.C. just before and after they bloomed.

Cherry Blossoms in London April 2013

I did my best with my tiny camera to capture what it was like to walk under them–to share with my mother when we got back. Sadly, the video isn’t very good. Okay, the sound is DREADFUL.

Still, if you turn down the sound and watch it, you get the general idea.

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Two Quick Things

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First, thanks to Serenity Health for last week’s giveaway.

And congrats to ALLYSON on winning the lovely solar fountain. She won thanks to a repin of the original post.

She writes of her win:

I am in the process of creating a big garden full of flowers and edible ornamental [plants] for my sis for Mother’s Day. We so wanted to put a water fountain in, but there was no money for it in the budget. So not only did I win, so did she. I got to show her the pic tonight and she was just ecstatic!

Allyson has promised to share photos of the final project.

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Second, I’m participating today in a blog hop hosted by Gifted Homeschoolers Forum. My contribution is over at HowtoWorkandHomeschool.com. You can find a complete list of the participating blogs over at the GHF Blog Hop page.

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{From Blog Post to Bookshelf} Know Someone Who Wants to Chat about Working While Homeschooling?

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In case you’re wondering about the book’s progress, it’s being laid out this week. And I think that we’ve just agreed upon a title–but I still can’t tell you about that, yet.

I will, however. And soon.

Until that moment arrives, I’m gradually turning up the heat over at HowtoWorkandHomeschool.com. As part of that endeavor, I’m hosting an “online office hour” over on Facebook. It’s scheduled for Tuesday, May 7 at 7PM CST. And it’s FREE!

Y’all, it would help me out a lot if you’d share a link to this post so that I can start reaching out to parents and others who may be interested in the book as well as my coaching services.

You can also sign up to participate in the office hour via Facebook.

Thanks!

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